During my hiatus from blogging, I have forced myself to find times of rest. Times to be quiet with no distractions. I even spent a week without my iPhone (gasp!) and about 2 weeks without engaging in any social media. This time has given me a chance to soak in the little things. I find myself being more thankful for what I do have, and less upset about what I lack. Time away has given me a better perspective on what I do, why I do it, and what is really important. I don’t come back with everything figured out. No one has it all figured out. But I come back with more peace in my heart.
Jeff and I celebrated our 10-year anniversary a few months early with a trip to Cabo (excuse the blurry pics from Jeff’s phone). I left my phone at home, and honestly that first day without it was strange, especially while traveling. We had a layover in L.A. (why in the world didn’t we have a direct flight from Phoenix??), and I caught myself reaching for my phone so many times. Seriously, every time there was a spare second, I was thinking about reaching for my phone. Sitting in the airport, waiting in line at Starbucks, waiting to take off. Everywhere I looked, people were staring at their phones. I found that I really didn’t miss it, I was just in the habit of reaching for it. Sitting in the airport, I actually started to enjoy being tuned in to what was going on around me. The people watching was incredible (L.A., remember?) and I just felt myself relax. Suddenly, my mind was no longer racing. My anxious mind that never stops was at rest. I spent the rest of the vacation enjoying the silence that comes with no distractions. I sat on the beach, soaked in the sun, and let God refresh my soul. I did take time to read a couple amazing books and drink a few margaritas, but what I really enjoyed was the silence (and of course, the time alone with my honey).
When we got back from our trip last week, I wanted to make sure not to dive right back into the busyness, so I took an additional week off of blogging and social media. As I start to ease my way back in, I want to make sure I am doing it right this time, with the proper perspective. For me, having proper perspective starts with giving thanks. The more I can find to be thankful for, the less I will have to complain about.
Originally, I had planned to do Thankful Thursday posts each week. After my trip, I decided to challenge myself (and you) even more. What if we could list one thing we are thankful for every day in 2012? That would be 365 days of thanks. I bet we would be inspired. At first, it might seem easy, but what about when the bad days come? Will we be thankful then? I think that’s when the greatest inspiration will happen.
I wanted to tell you of my plan now so you can start preparing. Grab a button (it’s just up and to the right of this post) and start spreading the word if you plan to participate (oh, I hope you will!).
I would love to have you by my side in this. Whether you share your thanks on your blog, Facebook, Twitter or even face-to-face, I hope you will stop by to share your blessings here too. If you take photos, please upload them to my Flickr group for all of us to be encouraged. I will do a link-up each Thursday so that we can all find each other’s favorite post of the week.
If you want to start tweeting about it, use the hashtag #365thanks
Look for more in the coming weeks as this project evolves and takes shape. I can’t wait to see what comes out of this next year!
P.S. I am thankful for each one of YOU!
I LOVE this! Seriously LOVE LOVE LOVE this… the post… the challenge… the pictures. I’m thankful in this moment for you sharing it!
Thank you Shelley! So excited to get started. Glad you are excited too!
I find that days that I get away and experience People w/o the phone I’m able to leave it behind. Thanks for posting and sharing. 🙂
Thanks Leah. Definitely a needed break. Made me remember what real face-to-face conversations are like.
Welcome back! What a way to be good to yourself and help inspire such wonderful ideas!!! I’m definitely going to participate in #365thanks … and spread the word 🙂
Thanks Jenn! I am so excited that you will be participating!
This is incredible, Alysa! What a great decision you made to unplug for 2 full weeks. I don’t think I’ve done that for more than a day or 2. I can only imagine how powerful that experience must have been (not to mention just plain relaxing.)
Thanks Mel, it was really nice! Definitely will plan to do it a couple times a year from now on 🙂
I can so relate to your post, Alysa. I have gone on vacation without my phone and it’s so FREEING! You can really put things in perspective on a beach with a margarita in hand. Sometimes it’s hard to keep the momentum when I’m back home sitting in front of my computer, so I have a few sticky notes on my screen that say something to take me back to my “vacation mindset”…even if just for an hour.
It is SO hard to keep it up at home. I found myself sucked into computer land today. I am hoping that the #365thanks project will help me remember my priorities better!
What an exciting challenge! And happy anniversary.
Janelle
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I spent quite a bit of time “away” from my computer during the 1st trimester of this third pregnancy (I’m almost 22 weeks now). I came away w/ many of the same realizations. It’s a gift to live life slowly, intentionally, and not tied down to twitter. And yet the internet is a great tool too…
I am forever seeking balance.
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