This month marks the first ever Childhood Obesity Awareness Month. With over 23 million kids ages 2 to 19 being obese or overweight, this truly is an epidemic that we all need to be aware of. As a mom of two small children, my perspective on this issue has shifted as I actively seek to teach my kids about what healthy eating looks like. Let me share with you a little of what I have learned in the past three years that a classroom could never teach me.
I underestimated the ability of children to have a wide palate. I almost did it. I almost gave into the “Mommy and Daddy will eat this adult meal while the kids have their choice of chicken nuggets, pizza or hot dogs” mentality. That was until my son at two years old asked for a bite of my salmon one night at dinner. He ended up eating almost the entire filet. My 17-month-old daughter can’t get enough edamame or any other beans for that matter, the more flavorful the better. I can’t believe I almost fell into the trap of limiting my kids to such a narrow concept of food. I’m so glad I didn’t!
Great post! Your kids are adorable! I especially love your anecdote that your son will pop a cherry tomato and basil leaf in his mouth!
Awesome post Alysa! We are still working on this but seem to be making great steps in the right direction! Thank you so much for all of your insight. Your an amazing Mom, friend, and nutritionist!
I agree with everything you said Alysa! While we still give into the fast food occasionally (when we are driving home at 7pm and dont want to be cooking dinner at 8!)..we usually aim for the healthiest we can find…eegees, hot wok etc.
We try to cook healthy meals at home as often as possible. And the nights when my 4 y/o helps out in the kitchen she definitely is more interested in eating her food!
As a first time mom, 4 years ago, I thought you had to give your kids the jarred (or homemade) baby food purees for months and months…but learned early on that my baby wanted to have NOTHING to do with these purees (even homemade)…she didnt like the texture. We gave he a California roll piece of sushi at 5 1/2 months old and she devoured everything except the chewy seaweed. From that day on, she has always eaten what the family is eating and I am proud to say, I cannot think of a single time I have made a special meal for the kids!
My 17 month old is following in big sister's footsteps (though at a little older of an age) and loves just about everything we put in front of her.
We have learned that if you start feeding your children healthy foods that are naturally sweet (at an early age) they will develop a preference for these foods even over candy/juices and sweets! My girls ask for milk or water to drink over juice (or even soda)…partly because they very rarely were ever given juice as infants/toddlers…and partly because they prefer the taste of milk/water!
And, if they ever are given the choice, 9 times out of 10 they will choose a piece of fruit over a serving of dessert!
I believe you REALLY do have to be PROACTIVE in instilling these values and providing these early eating experiences….but as hard as it may be sometimes…it is worth it! These early lessons kids learn will be responsible for their well being for the rest of their lives!
Really enjoyed this post and feel like I have learned so many of the same lessons. It is so easy to tell parents the "right" things to do in terms of healthy eating and their kids, but when you become a parent yourself, you find out how challenging that can be. Even dietitians can fall into the trap of giving their kids "kid food"–because as you said, it's so much easier. Thanks for your honest post about those challenges and how you overcame them–and for the great advice to other parents.
Thank you for the feedback everyone. I think this issue comes down to daily decisions, and it sounds like you all are making the right ones!
We have loved engaging our kids in the growing, cooking, and eating process. Now as teenagers and in charge of their eating, I am confident that our time and energy was well invested!
Great post. You are so right that it is hard even for dietitians. I think if you invest in kids early years it gets easier as they get older. Thanks for sharing!
What a wonderful and honest post! You describe so well the challenges and doubts parents of toddlers face every day.
You are right – healthy eating and healthy habits begin at home. It takes a little bit of planning and commitment just like anything else. I think if parents make it a priority, they can definitely do it. After all, they are able to accomplish so many other things for their children.
Thank you for being a champion of healthy eating and offering such wonderful tips.
Thank you so much for putting the blog carnival together. I enjoyed reading everyone's posts!
I am SO with you about the child's palate.
Our kids eat what we eat. Period.
I understand that we all have foods that we don't care for, and if our kids try something multiple times and still don't care for it, we understand. But that has only happened with one food so far.
It makes me sad (and a little angry) when I hear about kids who only eat corn dogs, macaroni and cheese, and drink chocolate milk.
We teach our boys about healthy food, and about eating sugar in moderation. They understand why they can't have soda and why ice cream isn't a nightly thing.
That's another reason why I love your blog… your recipes are amazing and my kids love them š
Sounds like you are doing a great job Becca!
I wasn't a particularly healthy eater, but that changed when I became a mother… just to give you an idea, my child came home š the other day because her friends were trading food from their lunchboxes, and she told them there was A REASON their mothers put that food in there, and they told her: you only say that because you never bring any tradable foods! (meaning pizza, hot dogs, hamburgers, chicken nuggets, etc. Not that we never eat them, but, it's not an everyday thing for us!)