On a recent trip home to visit family, I told my sister that I wanted to get back into running again. Even though I have been working out pretty consistently over the past year, I haven’t gone for a run in what seems like forever. Running can be hard on my body, especially when autoimmune issues pop up. But I’ve been feeling good lately, better than I have in a long time.
So last week I laced up my shoes, turned on my Nike+ Running app and set off for the trail. My goal was to make it to the end of the trail without walking (about 3/4 mile). After a whopping one-tenth of a mile, I was ready to quit.
Why am I doing this? What was I thinking? This is horrible!
I then reminded myself that the hardest part of running is in my head. The end of the trail was mentally too far away, I needed to set some mini-goals or I would never get there.
Ok, I can make it to the bridge. If I can just make it to the bridge, I will allow myself a quick rest.
I made it to the bridge and realized I wasn’t going to die.
Ok, keep going. I can make it to that tree up there, then I can rest.
I got to the tree and realized I didn’t want to stop.
Ok, just make it to those bushes.
I made it to the bushes.
And then? The end was in sight. In fact, it was really close to the bushes. I kept going.
All of a sudden, by reaching these mini-milestones, I had made it to my goal, the end of the trail.
3/4 of a mile without stopping. I know. It seems ridiculous to be celebrating such a small achievement, but you know what? After I ran that 3/4 mile, I knew I had it in me to do it again. So I walked 1/4 mile then started again. This time because I knew I could do it, I didn’t need to set those mini-goals, I just ran 3/4 mile.
Then I did it one more time.
By the time I was finished, I had completed 3 miles, and I had run 2.25 of them. After wanting to quit in the first five minutes, I consider that a huge success.
This experience reminded me that setting a goal is important, but what you do on the way to that goal determines whether you will ever get there at all.
So what kind of goal is looming large before you, tempting you to quit? Take that goal and break it down. Figure out what your first mini-goal will be. Get yourself to the bridge, then to the tree, then to the bushes. Set enough mini-goals and all of a sudden the finish line will be in sight.
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Whatever you want to do, take the first step. Just get started. Set your eyes on that first mini-goal and go. Pretty soon, you’ll be at the end of the trail, wondering why you ever wanted to quit.
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